‘I Didn’t Get To Come Home…I Died Doing Something Meaningful’

May 26, 2025

For Memorial Day, we share the story of the death of local Marine LCpl. Travis M. Nelson, who gave his life in Afghanistan on August 18, 2011.

Gold Star Mom Beckie Nelson spoke with NorthEscambia.com a decade after Nelson’s death and her son’s ultimate sacrifice in Afghanistan.

I Died Doing Something Meaningful.

And she shared with us a short, simple note LCpl Travis Nelson left behind in his field book just in case he did not return.

“Dear friends & family, If your reading this it seems I didn’t get to come home. I love each and every one of you and I want you to know I have no regrets. I died doing something meaningful.”

He died a few short weeks after writing that note.

Beckie Nelson clings to those words that provided her peace and understanding.

“We received Travis’ belongings weeks after the funeral. The emotions we felt as we opened the trunk are unexplainable. Still in disbelief, our hearts still in pieces, it was gut wrenching to say the least. When I saw this page I closed the book, laid down on his bed with it in my arms and I actually slept for the first time in weeks.”

Growing Up With A Promise To His Mother

A young Travis Nelson grew up in Bratt, just two doors down from the modern day Travis M. Nelson Park that was named in his memory about a year after its 2010 opening.

He would play on those very grounds, shooting his BB gun and riding his go cart. His first love in his young life was fishing. At four years old, he would spend hours with relatives fishing on the Escambia River. No matter how old he got, he never gave up the love for a fishing pole and hook. He also loved playing baseball at Northwest Escambia’s Bradberry Park in Walnut Hill.

On Sept., 11, 2001, Travis Nelson was nine years old when America was attacked. He was not playing; he was fixated on the news.

And he made a promise that day. The kind of promise to a mother that a young man will do anything to uphold.

“I’ll never forget him saying ‘Momma, I will protect you. I will be a soldier’,” Beckie Nelson said.

The family last saw Travis on July 13, 2011, as he deployed for Afghanistan. Their last phone conversation was Monday, August, 15, 2011, as he requested items for a care package.

That care package was still sitting by the front door three days later. It never made it to the mail.

August 18, 2011.

It was about noon on Thursday, August 18, 2011, at the Nelson home in Bratt.

An American flag fluttered in the breeze on the porch.

And three men in military uniforms stood at the door. Beckie Nelson knew what that meant.

“I just screamed and said no,” she said. “I just went to my knees and said don’t let them come in. I knew right away that he was gone.”

My Biggest Fear

The next day, Beckie Nelson sat in the middle of her bed with a laptop, reading the scores of reader comments on a NorthEscambia.com story about Travis Nelson’s death.

“He really was our hero,” she said, clutching a 5×7 photo of her son.

“I didn’t think I could see past that day. I felt like it would always be that day. I didn’t imagine that I could ever talk about it,” she said. “But I can, and it has to do with the support groups, the military support groups, and the community support.”

She was remarkably strong as she talked about the heart wrenching pain of that day.

But during our interview, her voice broke.

“My biggest fear,” she said before pausing. “My biggest fear was that Travis would be forgotten. I was scared I was going to forget.”

A Fallen Marine Returns.

LCpl. Travis M. Nelson was never forgotten.

The rain poured down at Pensacola Naval Air Station August 24, 2011, as Nelson’s body arrived on the final leg of his journey home.

Outside the main gate of Pensacola NAS, people gathered to pay their respects to the young soldier. The rain did not send them running; they stood silently — many holding American flags — as the hearse carrying an American hero departed on a 55-mile journey to Atmore.

Along the way, some of Pensacola’s busiest roadways came to a complete standstill as the motorcade passed. Many motorists stood outside their vehicles and paid their respects.

In Walnut Hill, just a few miles from Nelson’s boyhood home in Bratt, the motorcade slowed as it approached Ernest Ward Middle School. Nelson was a Golden Eagle, attending Ernest Ward in the sixth and seventh grades.

Hundreds of Ernest Ward Middle School students and teachers dressed in red, white and blue lined Highway 97, American flags in hand, waiting for the arrival of the motorcade.

Several of Nelson’s middle school teachers were among the crowd that suddenly grew silent as the first sirens could be heard. As the procession passed, the students stood with their hands over their hearts, waving Old Glory. The thunder of 127 Patriot Guard motorcycle riders vibrated the ground and echoed across the country fields near the school.

Six Florida Highway Patrol trooper vehicles led the hearse past the school. Many students and teachers broke down in tears at the sight of a flag draped coffin. Others cried as they made eye contact with Nelson’s parents and their daughter  — who was a sixth grader at Ernest Ward at the time.

“I look back at those pictures now,” Beckie Nelson said. “Those pictures from the middle school. It meant so much. Those kids are now fathers, mothers, some are now serving in the military.”

My Travis.

“Travis knew at nine years old that nothing was going to hold him back. That was his heart’s desire,” Beckie Nelson said 10 years later. “That’s what he wanted to do with his life.”

“God had a greater plan for my Travis.”

Above: NorthEscambia.com photos, click to enlarge.

Comments

12 Responses to “‘I Didn’t Get To Come Home…I Died Doing Something Meaningful’”

  1. Linda Newbern on May 27th, 2025 11:29 am

    My heartfelt love and prayers go out to Beckie. I remember Travis from the Young Marines at NAS. My Grandson was devastated when Travis died as tney had become firm friends. Blake still goes to the cemetery every year to visit his friend. Travis was a true hero and is missed by all.

  2. Fourth grade teacher on May 26th, 2025 7:19 pm

    Travis was in my fourth grade class when 9-11 happened. This event greatly affected him. He said on that day and the days that followed that one day he would join the military so he could protect our country. He kept his promise to us. At a very young age he knew he was called.
    Travis LOVED to have fun and make us laugh. Everyone LOVED Travis. What an honor to say that I knew Travis Nelson. Thank you for your service to this country.

  3. Colin Waldroup on May 26th, 2025 6:25 pm

    Beckie, I’m so glad to have heard Travis’ story first hand. You are such a strong woman. Love you, miss you! Semper Fi!

  4. Jeff on May 26th, 2025 5:50 pm

    We will never forget Travis. He was my cousin. I can remember him visiting our house in north Alabama every summer. With either a fishing pole or a BB gun in hand at all times. Travis was born to be a marine. It was his destiny and always was. We’re all so proud of him but are still heartbroken at our family’s loss. Thank you to the community for honoring him with the park. And the outpouring of love at the funeral to the honor of still remembering him in this article. We appreciate yall.He is our hero among the others that have laid down their lives for this great country and our great freedom. We’ll never forget you.

  5. Donna Knowles Coleman on May 26th, 2025 3:36 pm

    No fear my friend Becky, I never met Travis but he will NEVER be forgotten. Hugs from me to you!

  6. Mark E. Williams on May 26th, 2025 11:55 am

    I am so happy that this story of this BRAVE soldier’s life gets memorialized here today. I was working at Alabama Power Company at the Church Street location in sales, when this happened and Mr. Nelson paid the ultimate sacrifice. I remember how this greatly shook all the surrounding community and how so many hushed conversations took place about the grief his family must be going through in the loss of such a BRAVE young man in his humble sacrifice for his country. I remember how this made me feel so saddened at this happing to him at such a young age. And I thought about his family and the overwhelming grief that they certainly are going through, and although I didn’t even know his Mother, I just wished I could meet her somehow and give her a big ol hug of comfort. Today, upon getting up in the safety and solitude of my home, sitting here relaxing with a cup of coffee and reading Northescambia.com, I realize that I do so in the knowledge of MANY ultimate sacrifices that have been paid like Travis did. Travis made a promise to his Mom at 9 years old to keep her safe and he held to that promise. Unknowingly along the way, he was also doing his diligent duty to keep a lot more of us safe as well, and most all of the rest of us he didn’t even know. I read this story this morning and yes, tears welled up in my eyes knowing he will never go fishing on The Escambia River again, pick at his Sister, go visit with those teachers that inspired him in his youth, or even give his Mother a call to come to the children’s ward at the hospital to come view for the first time her new grandchild. But Travis, I thank you for your BRAVE and humble soul, and I salute YOU for all that you did to protect your Mother as well as all the rest of us that you didn’t even know. On this Memorial Day, I am glad to remember you Lance Corporal Travis M. Nelson.

  7. Bobby on May 26th, 2025 9:44 am

    Not sure if you are aware of how many tears that are going to be shed throughout Northwest Florida today because of this article. Heart wrenching!

  8. Scobie Wilcoxon Sr on May 26th, 2025 7:46 am

    I cannot fathom the loss of a child. As Travis was serving, my own son was, too. Thankfully, he came back; but, the fear for him was made more real.

    I was one of the 127 Patriot Guard riders at every leg of his ride home. It was, and still is, a very emotional memory. The outpouring of communities was touching, to say the least.

    I hope all is well with you, Beckie.

    At your service,
    Scobie.

  9. Retired Navy Combat Vet on May 26th, 2025 7:25 am

    RIP Brave warrior, Till Valhalla!

  10. Lynda on May 26th, 2025 6:57 am

    My eyes are full of tears as I read this.To the family: I’m so sorry for your loss. I remember the day of the procession.
    Thank You Travis for the ultimate sacrifice you made for us and you will never be forgotten.

  11. Luigi on May 26th, 2025 6:41 am

    Some gave some , others gave it all . Freedom is not free ,. It is paved by the sacrifice of so many . So today while you go shopping for deals or have a nice barbecue, paused and reflect on the memory of all those who have served , those serving . We , our nation owe this heroes our freedom .

  12. Barbara Agerton on May 26th, 2025 2:33 am

    Through many tears,I am humbled I remember when, and also felt great pain for his Mom.At this same time I remember my Dads brother died in World War 2.. the same age as Travis.The soldiers coming to my Grand Parents door. I moaned out loud reading how his Mom said”Don’t let them in” and she knew… she knew.. the boy she had given birth to, Thank you for this story.It is so powerful. God Bless…