Comments on: Woman Convicted Of Elaborate Plan To Torture, Kill Ex, Burn House Down

By: Lisa K

Lisa K — Sun, 27 Dec 2015 20:48:21 +0000

In response to Ellenb:
“It’s not always about that. A man will break, destroy a woman’s spirit just because he can. I don’t know what happened in this marriage , but I’d bet that Nadine had some emotional & mental abuse. Yes she went to far, I’ll say it again. Please don’t condemn her to hell without knowing all the facts. Emotional, mental abuse is devastating to a person’s spirit and very difficult to get over & past especially if it happens for years. Not everyone is a strong independent emotionally stable person.
Praying for you Nadine.”

You’re comment is ironic. You say “I don’t know what happened in this marriage, but I bet” and then “don’t condemn her without knowing the facts.”.

It’s great that you are praying for Nadine. Your comment is cruel though. You blame the victim. You are doing what other do in rape cases. The “if she hadn’t worn that skimpy dress, she wouldn’t have been raped” excuse.

A jury of Nadine’s peers found that she tried to torture and murder her husband. They saw the evidence, deliberated and found her guilty. Jurors are the finders of fact.

I don’t think you mean to be cruel. I think you simply believe that a woman would only behave this violently if the man “had it coming”. Not every man is abusive. In this cases, every fact points to Nadine trying to torture and kill her ex-husband.

So as you pray for Nadine, perhaps you can say a prayer for the victim too.

By: Judy Boles

Judy Boles — Sat, 19 Dec 2015 08:37:19 +0000

Wow this World has became So Evil !! She had thought That killing Out That’s for sure!! Think she may Have seen That movie,” MISERY “!! She was gonna Torcher Him, He Must have really Hurt and left Her Scorn, Or She SNAPPED, and said.” HELL HERE I COME”!! It’s sad To think How Crazy We all Can Become over another person; When Betrayed or have issues Going on that Can Be Easily Covered As Noone Picks Up On It !!!
You’d Be amazed what One Can Do and Really Never seem as though It was a Different Day!! They act and seem as they Know Nothing and all Is Is Fine;Yet Be killed the entire Family !!! Believe Me People, People Could be Anyone You Think would Never Do No Harm may Have Mental illness and Are Good at Hiding It and Some Folks; Man Or the Woman; Cheat abuse and drive someone To be crazy Too !!! Just Sad Days this 21st Century I feel Frightened For my children and grandchidren and Their kids it Can And Is Only gonna Be Worse Before The Lord King Of Kings Comes and Takes Ya HOME !!!
I pray For the whole World !!!! Amen

By: David Huie Green

David Huie Green — Sat, 19 Dec 2015 05:20:56 +0000

REGARDING:
“It amazes me at the number of men who make women crazy and then scream victim. I agree with the fact that this woman went way above and beyond crazy but I’m sure her husband was driving the crazy train at least part of the time. Men cheat, lie and make you doubt everything you ever knew and then scream “she’s crazy.”How is it you go from okay one day to this extr…”

It amazes me how people can be SURE every crazy woman was driven crazy by a man.
That’s crazy.

Hmmm, circular argument if all who believe it are crazy women with abusive men.

Does this mean all crazy men are gay and also driven crazy by their men or that men can be crazy for other reasons but not women? (Sexist theology)

“Men cheat, lie and make you doubt everything you ever knew and then scream “she’s crazy.” ”

All men do this and it always makes the women crazy?
Some men do this and it makes some women crazy?
Could it be that the crazy ones were always crazy and the men were too clueless to notice in time?
Isn’t getting with and staying with an abusive man a sign the woman is already crazy?

I’ve known women to point out some other women who go from one abusive relationship to another, over and over.

Freud (a man) would blame their mother.

David for discernment regarding sanity/insanity

By: Agree with Shay!!

Agree with Shay!! — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 23:31:46 +0000

Shay said a mouthful, while she hit the nail on the head.!!

By: Shay

Shay — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 15:54:54 +0000

It amazes me at the number of men who make women crazy and then scream victim. I agree with the fact that this woman went way above and beyond crazy but I’m sure her husband was driving the crazy train at least part of the time. Men cheat, lie and make you doubt everything you ever knew and then scream “she’s crazy.”How is it you go from okay one day to this extreme and not see it coming a mile away. If she’s crazy ask yourself what you did to make her that way. That much anger doesn’t just appear overnight.

By: Traumaqueen

Traumaqueen — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 15:23:27 +0000

@pensacola pete

Unfortunately crazy isn’t gender specific. It affects both men and women.

By: Pensacola pete

Pensacola pete — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 11:50:17 +0000

When a man does something to his ex, he’s a monster.

When a woman tries to torture, kill and burn her ex in his house, she’s the victim of abuse.

Aren’t you glad we’ve abolished sexual discrimination and double standards in this country?

By: David Huie Green

David Huie Green — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 00:58:13 +0000

20 years would leave her free around age 80.
Probably safe to be around by then, but might not be.

REGARDING:
“Maybe she just said, enough is enough,, ”
“no one knows what she might have gone thru.. ”
“Some men mistreat women and abuse them, just because they can.. ”
“Now she’s locked up and he’s on to his next victim.. ”
“Next time he may not be so lucky.. ”

I broke it up to point out a thought which starts with a “maybe’ acknowledges the writer doesn’t know and believes no-one knows, points out what some others do, goes on to assume that is just what happened and assumes not just his guilt but his continuing misdeeds.
It even goes by the pseudonym , “Been there !!!” to indict him for what others have done.

It’s even possible he is the presumed monster.
Possible he isn’t.
Possible others know exactly what each was like:
Judge in divorce, jury hearing evidence presented, lawyers, law enforcement officers, kinfolk, neighbors within earshot.

For whatever reason, she seems dangerous to herself and others.
They will have years to learn more.

David for sanity, safety, good choices in marriage

By: Bobby C.

Bobby C. — Fri, 18 Dec 2015 00:12:44 +0000

To me, those bottles of acid are the most horrific part of the story. Murder/Suicide is one thing but that kind of torture is another. I’m amazed by those trying to justify her actions by saying she was possibly mentally or physically abused. I don’t know the whole story but this woman went way….WAY too far!

By: Been there !!!

Been there !!! — Thu, 17 Dec 2015 22:57:46 +0000

Maybe she just said, enough is enough,, no one knows what she might have gone thru.. Some men mistreat women and abuse them, just because they can.. Now she’s locked up and he’s on to his next victim.. Next time he may not be so lucky.. Praying for her and her torn mind..